Thought about being a Mom and an Athlete

Since becoming a mom, I have decided that moms are literal superheros… to take care of kids, manage a household, make sure everyone is fed, socialized, and healthy all while taking care of our own bodies and relationships and pursuits is literally *nearly* impossible! I have learned a lot (and am still learning) about assessing priorities and allocating appropriate time and energy to those priorities!

My training has been something that has been very important for me to prioritize. It has become my few moments of the day to escape, clear my brain and focus on something concrete that I can control, and has been a saving grace for my mental health. It is also super important to me for my daughter to grow up seeing me do something I love.

Before you read any further… If you are a mom, do not read this and compare yourself to me. I am writing this to share some wisdom and hopefully some inspiration to you to fight for your health and fight to make time to do something you love.

While I know life is ever-evolving, I wanted to share a few tips on how I am currently prioritizing my training!

Always assessing my capacity: this has been a skill that I have had to learn and will continue to learn. As a mom, it has become so much more apparent that I only have so much time and energy in my day and I have to decide how to allocate that time and energy and be very clear about my priorities. The truth is, I can handle the amount of training I am doing right now, but that may all change as life happens, and that is okay.

Schedule but be flexible: Kevin and I sit down at the beginning of each week and schedule what times each of us are training (amongst other things). The hard truth of training in my life is that I am up at 5am most days of the week doing my workout before Keely wakes up. If not, then I am having to get creative to fit training in during naps or after she goes to bed at night. And sometimes… it just doesn’t get fit in!!

What I can give is enough: You cannot compare yourself to pre-baby you. What your time training looks like now probably looks a lot different than it used to. Your in a new season with different stressors, so you have to understand what your new normals are and practice being okay with those new normals! If you are like me and have certain ideas of what training should look like because it was engrained if you for years, open yourself up to the new possibilities of the season you are in. And accept that your new training volume/style/amount is ENGOUH!

Time is fleeting: Not to be a downer… but… your time with your kids is always fleeting. And sometimes that means you skip a run to eat pancakes with them instead, and that is okay!!

The reality is, you can be both a mom and an athlete. You don’t have to choose! But, you do have to choose to step into the discomfort of “balancing” them both! And, I hope your journey is like mine in the sense that both being a mom and an athlete got better once I realized both could be true!!

Half Ironman World Championships: New Zealand

This has been a long time coming, but I wanted to share about my experience traveling to New Zealand for the Half Ironman World Championships from my perspective as a mom, athlete and dietitian! Kevin and I both qualified which was a dream in itself. We honestly held the whole thing pretty loosely, knowing we REALLY wanted to go, but that we also had a 14 month old, which would make it challenging. We knew if we went, we wanted to experience the country and be there for a while and we couldn’t fathom leaving Keely at home for an extended amount of time, so… we decided to bring her!!

Between the logistics of both of us racing, bringing our racing gear, flying that far with a 14 month old, bringing all her gear and traveling the whole length of New Zealand, I really started to believe we might be insane for trying to make it all happen!! Turns out… we were, but it was SO worth it!

Getting There:

Logistically, for how far you travel, it is pretty easy travel with one long overnight flight. The time difference is 21 hrs, so it only feels like 3. Which for all of our rhythms, it was pretty manageable. The hardest part was the amount of stuff we had to bring. We had 3 carry ons, 2 bikes, 1 extra checked bag, a stroller, plus 2 backpacks. You should have seen how ridiculous we were walking through the airports!!

Our flight path way Spokane -> San Francisco -> Auckland.

We then rented a camper van (basically just to carry all of our stuff). We stay in Auckland for a few days, and then traveled to Waiheki Island, then Coromandel area, then to Hahei, then to Taupo (where the race was). We were in Taupo for 5 days and then drove to the South Island. We stayed in Kaikoura, then Mt Cook, then Te Anau, vistited Milford Sound and then stayed in Queenstown.

We flew from Queenstown -> Auckland -> San Francisco -> Spokane.

The landscape seriously started like Hawaii and ended like Alaska and included everything in between! People are so kind and the culture is so welcoming. New Zealand cares a lot about their country and it shows! The parks and facilities were spotless. The playgrounds were epic. The food was (mostly) great. And, everything was very family friendly!

In the three weeks, we were in 9 different beds, camped 2 nights and were totally over keeping Keely entertained while driving and loading and unloading baby gear and bikes!

Prepping for the Race in another country:

One of the best things we did, was buy a cheap bike trainer off Facebook Marketplace to use before the race. Between being in new places, and having to ride on the opposite side of the road, we used this A LOT in the days leading up to the race. I always forget how much extra effort goes into planning logistics around workouts and racing in a new place. Luckily, the final weeks before racing is all about staying fresh with shorter workouts, so we were able to stay up on running and biking easily and got a few swims in before the race.

Carboloading:

Despite New Zealand being an english speaking country, carb-loading was kind of hard!! Food labels are slightly different in most other countries and it took a bit to get used to reading New Zealand food labels because all serving sizes are based off of weight. It was very challenging to try to understand what a serving was and the servings didn’t necessarily match was the US serving size is. Also, things like bagels were kind of hard to find! We did our best, but I cannot imagine trying to figure this out in a non-english speaking country!! We did get to try some new and fun things for our carb-load including Gingernut Cookies and Sherbert Fizz Candy (both of which may be things we order for future carb-loading).

The race:

What a cool event! This was my 3rd 70.3 World Championship race and by far the most relaxed (as were most things in New Zealand). In other events, you generally have to line up for the swim at least an hour before you start. We were literally playing in the park up to 20 minutes before Kevin started. It helped the whole day start right!

The swim was BEAUTIFUL! Lake Taupo is gorgeous, the water was clear and fairly calm. I PR’d my swim, I think mostly because of the perfect conditions!

The bike was tougher than I expected! The first half was fast (I honestly thought I was in store for another PR). The second half was a slow steady climb that lasted WAY TOO LONG! There was a headwind, and the surface was chipseal, so everything felt slow and hard.

The run was also tougher than I expected! It was advertised as flat, but was way hillier than I anticipated. It was also really hot- New Zealand’s ozone layer is super thin, so 75 degrees seriously felt like 90 degrees! I had to have a strong mental game and was able to pull out a run PR.

Overall, I was really pleased with the day. It is so fun to race with that caliber of athletes from all over the world and to hear families cheering for their loved ones in different languages. I am also stoked to have pulled out a strong race 14 months postpartum. The human body is really cool and it was fun to test that.

The hardest part… waking up early the next day to support Kevin in his race while carting Keely around the whole time!

What I learned:

• Do the thing, even if it seems crazy

• Babies change things in really hard ways, but also put new life and perspective to many situations

• Carb-loading in another country is hard

• Figuring out logistics around racing in someplace really new takes a lot of extra mental energy

• I could have spent another 4 months in New Zealand and still not felt like I saw it all!!

I hope reading through this inspires you to do something you’ve been dreaming about for a long time too!!

At Home Workouts: No Equipment, No Worries!

One of the coolest ways I’ve seen the community adapt to this COVID-19 quarantine is the amount of ideas being shared for at home workouts. Kevin and I have been doing at home workouts with very limited equipment. It has been great to get our bodies moving, but sometimes workouts just don’t feel as challenging when done with body weight. I wanted to share some extremely practical ways of making movements more challenging.

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Add weight: get creative!! You have heavy things around your house, I know you do! Find ways to make them carry-able… grab a backpack and get creative with what you can throw in it.

I found a Costco bag of rice and textbooks. You can also fill water bottles with water. Bags of dog food are heavy. Cans are heavy. Just find some heavy stuff and throw it in a backpack!

How to utilize for a workout:

• Place either on your back or your front to vary the load. You can do squats, lunges, deadlifts, 1 leg deadlifts, push ups, planks, jumping jacks, sprints, step ups, dips and many other movements with this.

• Carry it: you can do squat presses, strict presses, farmers carry.

• Move it: you can do wallballs, sit ups, kettlebell swings, cleans, toss it back and forth. Whatever you do, make sure the straps are tied in so they don’t whack you in the face.

At home workout:

4 rounds

• 30 lunges

• 20 squat press

• 10 push ups

• 400 m run (weight on your back)

Jump: jumping adds an element of power and speed, both of which will challenge more than a non jumping movement. Jumping will also get your heart rate up.

How to utilize in a workout: mix in jumping and non-jumping movements into your workout. Movements that can include jumping are: squats, lunges, push ups (for some), jumping jacks, tuck jumps, high jump, broad (frog) jump, speed skaters, and box jump.

Before you add jumping, make sure you feel strong enough in the non-jumping variation (aka a normal squat). Jumping will add more force to your joints and bones, so keep that in mind if you are nursing an injury.

At home workout:

5 rounds: 40 sec work/20 sec rest:

• Squat jumps

• Plank

• Speed skaters

• Dips

• Jumping jacks

Slow Down: slowing a movement down requires control. Because your muscle is working for longer, it is required to fire more often. This is a great way to make a movement harder with just a little bit of weight!

How to utilize in a workout: You can either move slowly through the whole movement, or pick a part of the movement to move slowly through and use power and speed in the other portion (like the deadlift video). This can be done with squats, lunges, deadlifts, push ups, presses, 1 leg squats and deadlifts, and sit ups.

At home workout:

3 rounds of 12 of each movement:

• Squat (lower for 5 seconds, pause at the bottom for 3 seconds, raise up for 1 second)

• Deadlift (lower for 5 seconds, pause at the bottom for 3 seconds, raise up for 1 second)

• Push up (lower for 5 seconds, pause at the bottom for 3 seconds, raise up for 1 second)

• Sit up (lower for 5 seconds, pause at the bottom for 3 seconds, raise up for 1 second)

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I was just thinking this morning that the idea of the quarantine has seemed like a fun idea… there has been a sort of novelty around it. If this continues on, I know at home workouts are going to become more and more challenging to stay motivated for. I strongly encourage you to KEEP MOVING! Exercise helps with:

• Immunity

• Triathlon and running performance

• Weight loss and weight maintenance

• Mental health

• Mood

So yes, your equipment may be limited. But push to find ways to make it more challenging and fun. You post-quarantine self with thank you for it.

If you have questions or need more ideas, please reach out!